What if I’m not good enough to succeed on my own?
First off, let me tell you that this kind of doubt is totally normal. You’re stepping away from a structured corporate environment that often validates success with promotions and pay raises. In the freelance world—or as a "corporate dropout"—those markers are less clear, and self-doubt can creep in.
But let’s approach this with some structure and creativity.
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Capture Reality: Take stock of where you are now. Write down your skills, achievements, and unique experiences. Often, we underestimate our own strengths when we're swamped with self-doubt. Seeing them on paper can serve as a reminder of your capabilities.
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Develop Grit and Skills: Embrace the idea of perpetual learning. You don’t need to be perfect to start—skills evolve. Pick an area you're passionate about and dive deeper. You’ll refine your skills and build confidence as you go. Remember, every misstep is a learning opportunity.
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Expose Yourself to Possibility: Share your work, even if it feels unfinished. Feedback is crucial. You'll find that your audience or clients often see value in your work that you might be blind to. Engage with communities and networks related to your field to gain insights and encouragement.
Let's be honest here: you will face failures and doubts. I have. I remember launching a project that didn’t take off as expected. It was tough, but it taught me resilience and forced me to iterate. Use each stumble as fuel for your next step.
Finally, redefine what success means to you. It doesn’t always mean a six-figure income—it could be the freedom to choose projects, the ability to spend more time with family, or simply waking up excited about your work.
Believe in your potential. You're on a transformative journey, and sometimes the messy middle is the most valuable part. Keep pushing forward, one step at a time. You've got this.